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Before I came over, I sent Nik a care package with all sorts of things he might be missing from the states. One of the things I sent was a box of confetti cake mix and confetti cake frosting. I was glad that I sent it, because I knew he would appreciate it (it is his favorite cake), but I knew he would never put on his baking cap and make the cake. He lives with 4 others guys, I could see how that would be a little weird. So, the day we stayed home, I made the cake for him while we watched a couple movies. He was so happy to have a taste from home. One of the movies we watched was Schindler’s List, because Nik had never seen it. I was concerned his roommates might be offended, but the movie was theirs and Nik assured me they are not afraid to talk about their countries history. I have to say it was awkward watching such a sad and disturbing movie in the country it was about.
When Nik arrived in Paderborn he really had no idea what living situation he was walking into. He was very fortunate to have things end up the way they have. For a guy, living with 4 other guys, having your own room, a fridge full of food and beer and a projection tv screen is about as nice as it gets. They make most of their meals at home and they mainly consist of bratwurst and pasta. I had to laugh, because one day I had bratwurst in my breakfast, lunch and dinner. Trust me I am not complaining, I actually liked it. This truly is a bachelor pad from heaven. I think Nik likes it, especially since he has lived with his grandma for the past 3 years. But, he says he will definitely be ready to leave when it is time. It is pretty much a party house, there is random people walking in and out of the house of all hours and he consistently has to get up at night to turn the music down. On the flip side though, the guys do a pretty good job of keeping the house clean. Each one of them does a little here and there (surprising for guys), so I was impressed with how clean the house stayed.
We have eaten most of our meals at the house since I have been here and I really enjoy it. Nik has been so sweet to make me breakfast each morning and we have worked together making dinners. I am so glad Nik is in a safe place to call home for a while.
Before this whole Germany thing happened with Nik, I told him the one thing that I felt I missed in his life was his baseball player experience. Nik has been a part of baseball his entire life. He lives, breathes and loves the sport. Since we have been together he has taught me so much about it and I myself have learned to appreciate it. I told him that I wish that I got to see him play baseball. At the time that seemed like a far fetched wish, but then Germany happened and we realized my wish of seeing him play was going to come true.
The weather on Sunday was perfectly exceptional. So sunny in fact I had to be fully covered up (I did not have any sunscreen) because I did not want to fry my skin like I have so many times in the past. So in other words I was hot. I arrived early before the game to watch a little bit of a warm up. When the game started I was excited to see Nik in his uniform and to see how focused he was. As his girlfriend I can say he looked so handsome. The baseball field is small, but very beautiful. I was impressed with the turnout of people. Everyone had some sort of Untouchables propoganda on and there was a ton of little kids running around with baseball mitts to catch the fly balls. Not much different than the US. The announcer was funny, because most of the time he would speak in German, but a lot of the plays and calls he would say in English. I appreciated that. I happily sat by myself because I was there to see Nik, not really to socialize, but I did have a few visitors. The groundskeeper for the field is Serbian and absolutely adores Nik. He doesn’t speak a lick of English, but would come up to me and smile at me, pat me on the shoulder and talk to me in either Serbian or German, like I understood him. I would smile back, laugh and nod my head. He was very sweet. He sat behind me with his wife and another couple. They were so excited everytime Nik came up to bat and they would chant, “NIKO, NIKO, NIKO, NIKO!” It made me very happy to see that Nik had his very own fan club.
I think Nik was a little worried I wasn’t having fun, so he would check in on me from the dugout every now and then. I was having a ton of fun though, I found myself being the loudest cheerleader out there. Whenever Nik or Danny had a good play I would shout out some phrase or sentence I thought would be appropriate. At the end of the day, they had won both games. The first one they beat the team by ten, so they stopped the game in the 7th inning. The second game was much closer, but they still won 2 to 1. After the game, it is customary for the team to sit and have a few biers before they leave the field. I was a little worried I would be imposing by joining in, but Nik assured me it was just fine. I think he was proud that I was there, but I could tell he was very tired and hungry from his long day. So, afterwards we headed to a restaurant by his house and enjoyed a delicious bowl of goulash.
Nik, I am so proud of you and so impressed with you abilities as an athlete. I am so fortunate that my wish came true.







